How Surviving Abuse Affects Future Relationships

Have you ever been in an abusive relationship or ever loved someone who had been broken from abuse in the past?

Have you experienced feelings that made you abusive to someone else or made you feel like being abusive to the person that you love?

If you have experienced any of these things, then you need to read this book..

“Dear Future Husband – How to Love Her When She’s Been Hurt Before” is not your typical “how to” book.

Told through the eyes of Candice LaSalle, a woman who endured the cycle of multiple abusive relationships, this book recants the realities of abuse and how it changes a person from the inside out.

Remember, an abusive relationship doesn’t always just occur between two lovers. Abuse can come from a parent, friend, sibling, spouse or other personal relationships in your life.

The world is often a dangerous place, full of broken people who break people. Candice was just an ordinary girl who grew up in an abusive home and was never able to break the cycle of abuse. Being able to sympathize with those who abused her, she ended up in one abusive relationship after another. This is her story; one she tells in the hopes that it will change the lives of those who hear it.

EVERYONE HAS VALUE, BUT THEY DON'T ALWAYS FEEL THAT WAY.

One of the greatest struggles a person faces when they experience recurring abuse is low self-esteem. Being broken makes you feel powerless and worthless, like nothing will ever get better for you and your life has little meaning.

Even after they manage to leave that abusive relationship, these feelings stay with them, sometimes for a very long time. This emotional damage will be dragged into future relationships if it remains unaddressed, and unfortunately, this is often the case.

In Candice’s situation, she carried that sense of worthlessness and emptiness around for a very long time in her life, and it only got her into more trouble. She ended up in more than one abusive relationship because she was desperate to be loved, and she didn’t know how to love herself enough to fight for her happiness.

DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND WAS WRITTEN TO HELP BOTH THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN ABUSED AND THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE THEM.

It is extremely important to understand what happens to someone after they have lived through an abusive relationship. Victims need to understand themselves, and the ones who love them need to understand what they have been through and how they can be supportive and helpful.

FOR THE VICTIMS OF ABUSE:

This book is to remind you that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. You have the strength to walk away from abuse and the support of millions of people who have done the same.

DFH will help you to understand what you are going through, and how being broken from abuse can affect your ability to love in future relationships. It will help you to understand yourself and the needs that you have as a person who has to be healed in order to grow and blossom into the valuable being that you are.

When you get out of an abusive relationship, you feel all messed up and overwhelmed. There is freedom and light, but there is pain, anger, brokenness and the question of “why did this happen to me?”

That is why you NEED to read this book, to remember that you are not the only one. That you are deserving of love and that the wrong someone else has done to you is NOT YOUR FAULT.

DFH is designed to help bring self-understanding, healing and the ability to love yourself and love again in the future.

FOR THOSE WHO LOVE THE ONES WHO HAVE BEEN ABUSED:

This book is to help you understand what the person you love has been through. Dealing with someone who is broken can be painful and trying, and even when they don’t mean to, they may hurt you.

Sometimes people who have been abused can’t communicate what they are feeling in a way that would be considered normal. That is because most of the time, they were abused for attempting to express themselves naturally in their former abusive relationships. As a result, the one you love may lash out and be difficult to understand and work with.

That is why you NEED to read this book, to be able to understand what they intend to communicate even when they find that they don’t know how to express it.

Loving a person who has been broken can break you too if you don’t know how to cope with the struggle of their own personal pain. Likewise, loving a person who has been broken can be extremely healing and rewarding for both of you. Once you understand what they are going through, you may be able find a way to get through to them.

Dear Future Husband can help you understand and overcome what you are going through today..

YOU CAN BREAK THE CYCLE OF ABUSE FOR YOUR FAMILY AND FUTURE GENERATIONS

One of the most valuable things we can do to break the cycle of abuse for the future is to educate ourselves, and bring healing to broken people.

Broken people break people, but love can heal us all. This isn’t a sentiment to be cheesy or typical, but it is a fact of life. Learning to love yourself and value yourself enough to understand who you are and why you are the way you are is crucial for your growth and happiness.  Likewise, learning how to understand the one you love and how their past pain haunts their present & future happiness could be the key to bring healing to both of you. It will lead to a relationship full of beauty and many moments of joy & respect.

Dear Future Husband is a book for anyone dealing with abuse, past and present, victim or support. Get it now and open the door to a better future of recovery, happiness and healing.

About the Author:

Raya Rouge is a writer and artist from Canada who often spends her time travelling with her family. Her main objective is to inspire and motivate her audiences, often speaking on the subjects of self-love and the pursuit of happiness & success. Growing up with an abusive mother, she has personally endured the struggle of self-esteem and the challenges of self-acceptance in this modern, commercialized world. To read more about her, view her bio on her website, www.rayarouge.com.

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